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  1. faqs

What is adoption?

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Adoption is the legal process by which a child or siblings who cannot be brought up within their birth family become full, permanent and legal members of their new family. Adopters become the child's legal parents with the same rights and responsibilities as if the child was born to them.

Most adopted children have lived in foster care for part of their childhood. Most foster placements are with foster families rather than in foster homes. Time spent in foster care can range from days to several years, and many children have more than one foster placement before being placed for adoption.

Children who are adopted tend to have better outcomes than children who remain in foster care or spend their childhoods in and out of care.

Published: 31st August, 2022

Updated: 13th January, 2025

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Creative Storytelling - with children at risk

Sue Jennings

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A Speechmark Therapy Resource

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Published: 6th September, 2022

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Factsheet - Social Media Guide

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This guide helps parents and family members to use social media in empowering and positive way to support their family.

Download our social media guide

Please note: the copyright on Adoption UK's factsheets remains with Adoption UK. You may download and print off factsheets but copying and/or distributing them without Adoption UK's prior permission is not allowed.

Published: 12th October, 2022

Updated: 5th August, 2025

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1. Choosing a school

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  • Blog: Choosing Your Child’s School

    This article looks at some of the questions you might ask when looking at new schools for your adopted child.
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Published: 9th November, 2022

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1. General resources and information

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  • Summary of Restrictive Interventions and Reasonable Force in Schools non statutory guidance

    Restrictive Interventions and Reasonable Force in Schools

  • Booklet: Meeting the Needs of Adopted and Permanently Placed Children

    This booklet covers essential information on education in England from early years to the end of secondary school, including several case studies and guidance on effective uses of Pupil Premium Plus.

    Download booklet
     
  • Leaflet: Welcoming an Adopted Child


    This series of leaflets is ideal for printing out and passing on to education professionals working with adopted children. The simple two-page guides explain what adoption is, introduce the fundamentals of the impact of early life trauma, and suggest some helpful strategies to help children get off to the best start.

    Welcoming an Adopted Child to Your EYFS Setting

    Welcoming an Adopted Child to Your Primary School

    Welcoming an Adopted Child to Your Secondary School
     
  • Factsheet: Flexi-schooling

    Although relatively uncommon, flexi-schooling can be an effective alternative way to approach your child’s education. In this short guide we explore what flexi-schooling is and look at the legal position across the UK.
    Download factsheet
     

 

  • Factsheet: Elective Home Education

    Home education is becoming an increasingly common choice among adoptive families. If you are looking for alternatives to school-based education, this short guide explains some things you will need to know before you embark on this family journey.
    Download factsheet
     
     
  • Guidance: Principles of Excellence in Relationships Education

    Originally produced by Fastn and endorsed by Adoption UK, this guidance for schools outlines the underlying principles of effective relationships education which are being used to influence how relationships education is being delivered throughout England.


    Download Principles of Excellence in Relationships Education

    Download a reflective practice guide

     
  • A checklist for educators

    A checklist for educators which includes information and possible support measures and strategies to better support previously looked after children in school. Print this off and give to your child’s teachers. This resources was produced as part of the #BreakTheBarriers campaign.

    England - click here to download

  • All about me

    This guide is for children and parents/carers to print and complete to give to their teachers to help them better understand their needs. This was designed by our Psychology and Therapy Hub (PATH) team.

    Click here to download

Published: 9th November, 2022

Updated: 2nd January, 2026

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2. Adoption, Trauma, Attachment and Education

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  • Video: Trauma in the School Setting

    Produced by Adoption UK Wales (but relevant across the UK) this five-minute video is about the importance of understanding adopted children and their needs in the education environment. The video was funded by the Welsh Government as part of an ongoing programme of work to raise the attainment of adopted children in school in Wales. (The video displays the old Adoption UK helpline number. For the new number, click here)








 

  • Video: Trauma in the Classroom: Learning Lessons for Neglected and Abused Children

    Featuring author Louise Bomber as well as interviews with adopted young people and adoptive parents, this powerful five-minute video explores the difficulties that adopted children may encounter in an educational setting as a result of the separation, loss and trauma that they have experienced in their early lives.




 

  • Blog: After-School Restraint Collapse

    If your child seems ‘fine’ all day in school but often melts down after the end of the school day, they may be experiencing ‘after-school restraint collapse’. This blog explains more about the phenomenon and offers some strategies and tips for supporting a smoother transition at the end of the day.
    Read the blog here

Published: 1st December, 2022

Updated: 29th April, 2026

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3. Flexi-schooling and home educating

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  • Factsheet: Flexi-schooling

    Although relatively uncommon, flexi-schooling can be an effective alternative way to approach your child’s education. In this short guide we explore what flexi-schooling is and look at the legal position across the UK.
    Download factsheet
     

 

  • Factsheet: Elective Home Education

    Home education is becoming an increasingly common choice among adoptive families. If you are looking for alternatives to school-based education, this short guide explains some things you will need to know before you embark on this family journey.
    Download factsheet

Published: 2nd December, 2022

Updated: 29th April, 2026

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3. Choosing a school

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  • Factsheet: Priority School Admissions

    In England, children who were adopted from care in the UK or overseas have priority access to school places during the normal admissions round for primary or secondary school. This short guide to the School Admissions Code explains how priority admissions work in practice.
    Download factsheet

 

  • Blog: Choosing Your Child’s School

    This article looks at some of the questions you might ask when looking at new schools for your adopted child.
    Read the blog

Published: 2nd December, 2022

Updated: 29th April, 2026

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4. Supporting behaviour and learning

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  • Resource: Pupil case studies

    These seven printable case studies feature common behavioural challenges faced by some adopted children. Each study describes the challenge, explores the reasons behind it and suggests a range of strategies for schools to try. Topics covered include executive function, toxic stress, hypervigilance and sensory processing.
    Download case studies

 

  • The Story Tellers toolkit : Feelings are funny things 

    This resource is written by Esther Thomas who is the lead director for Children Looked after in central self consortium (CSC) , Wales.  In the introduction it states "The ‘Feelings are Funny Things’ Programme aims to contribute to learners’ emotional health and a positive attitude to learning through helping them understand more about their emotions, thoughts and beliefs and how these influence the choices they make" It includes stories or links to stories available on the internet with lesson plans linked to those stories as well as other resources to develop emotional literacy- something that is crucial for our vulnerable learners.

    Download Storytellers' toolkit - English

 

  • Resource: Trauma-Proofing the Curriculum

    A handout exploring how common curriculum topics and activities can pose particular difficulties for children who have experienced trauma, and especially care-experienced children.

     Trauma-Proofing the Curriculum Handout

 

  • Blog: Confiscation: the unintended consequences for care-experienced children

    This short article explores why confiscating items from children who are care-experienced can result in surprising and unintended consequences, and suggests alternatives.
    Read the blog

 

  • Blog: The Consequences of Consequences

    These two articles featuring extracts from ‘The Trauma and Attachment Aware Classroom’ by Rebecca Brooks explain why systems of escalating consequences common in many schools so often fail to meet the mark for children with a history or trauma, neglect and loss.
    Read part 1

    Read part 2

 

Published: 3rd December, 2022

Updated: 29th April, 2026

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Factsheets

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New to FASD? This factsheet contains basic facts about FASD and how it affects individuals:

What is FASD?

  


New to Adoption or Fostering? Heard of FASD and want to know more? This is the factsheet for you:

FASD Guide for Prospective Adopters and Foster Carers

 


Kinship carer looking to know more about FASD? Co-written by FASD Hub and Kinship Care Advice Service Scotland (KCASS), this is the factsheet for you:

FASD Guide for Kinship Carers

 


Co-written with Visibility Scotland, this factsheet gives information about how Prenatal Alcohol Exposure can affect sight development. If you require an accessible version of this factsheet, please email [email protected]

FASD & Sight

 


This factsheet gives Criminal Justice professionals an insight into how FASD affects individuals and how they can be supported:

FASD and Young People in Conflict with the Law

 


Working in partnership with Sleep Scotland, we have written a factsheet with advice and information on sleep issues. 

FASD & Sleep

 


We also have a range of education factsheets which you can download here:

Education factsheets

Published: 4th December, 2022

Updated: 4th December, 2025

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5. School support for adopted learners

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  • Factsheet: Virtual School Heads

    All local authorities in England must appoint an officer with the responsibility of overseeing the education of looked after and previously looked after children in their area. These officers are called ‘Virtual School Heads’ (VSH) and may work as part of the ‘Virtual School’ team. This guide explains the role of the VSH and what adoptive families can expect from them.
    Download the factsheet

 

  • Factsheet: Designated Teachers

    Every state school in England must appoint a Designated Teacher responsible for overseeing the education of looked after and previously looked after children on roll at the school. This guide explains the role of the Designated Teacher and what adoptive families can expect from them.
    Download the factsheet

 

  • Factsheet: An Introduction to Pupil Premium Plus

    A two-page printable guide to Pupil Premium Plus funding, including information on what the funding is for, how it can be used and how to ensure you child’s school receives it.
    Download the factsheet

 

  • Blog: Pupil Premium Plus – the lowdown

    Another introduction to Pupil Premium Plus, in the form of a blog article.
    Read the blog

Published: 4th December, 2022

Updated: 29th April, 2026

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Sam Parkin

Director for England and Membership

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Sam is responsible for service delivery and development across England. She manages a team of skilled and experienced staff members who offer information, advice, and support to adoptive families in England. She is also responsible for oversight of Adoption UK's Membership service.

She first joined Adoption UK in 2017 as a Volunteer, then became a member of the team running the successful peer mentoring service and has now gone on to become Director.

Sam comes from a customer services background and spent 20 years in the Hair and Beauty industry working for one of the leading hair and beauty companies in England.  She also has a background in training.

Published: 17th January, 2023

Updated: 16th April, 2026

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As an adult adoptee, do I get help accessing records and tracing birth family?

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Help is available, though not enough, and there can be costs. Adoption UK is campaigning for more support for adult adoptees. Visit our Services and Support page for adopted people for information and advice:

Where can adopted people go to find support?

 

Published: 7th February, 2023

Updated: 13th December, 2024

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What sort of children need adoptive families

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There are around 2,000 children living in foster care in the UK who have a plan for adoption but haven’t yet been matched with a family. That’s a tiny percentage of the children in care, most of whom will either return to their birth families or remain in foster or kinship care. The average age for a child to be adopted is 3.5 years. Often, that’s because social services do everything they can to keep families together, before the courts take the decision that adoption is the best decision for a particular child. At the moment there are more families waiting to adopt, than there are children with a plan for adoption. Obviously it’s vital to get the right family for each child, and some groups of children spend much longer in care before being matched with a family. Sibling groups spend around 11 months longer, and children over the age of 5, those with a disability, and black children all spend longer in care than their peers. If you’re the right family for a child or children from one of those groups, you are likely to be matched more quickly.

Published: 7th February, 2023

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2022 - Pupil Premium Plus extended to include children adopted from overseas

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New guidance on pupil premium eligibility and funding rate in England includes an increase in funding and for the first time, children adopted outside England and Wales will be eligible to attract this funding for their schools.

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Published: 28th February, 2023

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2022 - New NICE standard on FASD diagnosis, assessment & prevention​.

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Adoption UK welcomes NICE’s (National Institute for Health and Care Excellence) latest quality standard published today (16th March 2022) which sets out how health and care services can improve the diagnosis, assessment, and prevention of fetal alcohol spectrum disorder (FASD).

Read more here

Published: 28th February, 2023

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3. Choosing a school

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  • Blog: Choosing Your Child’s School

    This article looks at some of the questions you might ask when looking at new schools for your adopted child.
    Read the blog

Published: 14th March, 2023

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Cambridge and Peterborough Adoption

Cambridgeshire and Peterborough

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Visit Cambridge and Peterborough Adoption's website

Published: 4th April, 2023

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