Hi, I’m Ali and I have been an adoption social worker for 9 years now. In that time, I have never taken for granted the role I play in creating families through adoption. My motivation for adoption work stems from my enjoyment of connecting with people and developing long term, trusting relationships. I enjoy getting to know people and listening to their stories – every assessment is different, full of surprises and it’s fair to say it never gets boring!

I have learnt so much both professionally and personally from adopters and their children. They never fail to amaze me with their dedication, patience, empathy and resilience. I often hold my families ‘in mind’ and draw upon examples from them in my own parenting! It is a privilege to be part of their journey and I am still in touch with many of the families I have worked with over the years.

Of course, there are more challenging aspects of my role and it is incredibly hard to see parents and children in turmoil. I hope that by being alongside families to recognise and accept these struggles and feelings, there is a sense of partnership and reassurance, to cope through the tougher times together.

What does my job say about me as a person? Well, mainly that I care about children; that I respect and value adopters and want to support them through their parenting journey; that I am dedicated to providing children with the best life chances possible and that I want to make a difference.

I feel proud of my career so far, but I feel most proud of the families and children that I have worked with. They are all just as big a piece of my journey, as I am of theirs. Adoption in all it’s facets can be heart-breakingly tough at times, but it is heart-warmingly wonderful too.’

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