Not posted on for while but am looking for help with the above. Basically I found on my AD phone who has just turned 16, but functions at a very lower age and we have CAMHS and Support After Adoption
"supporting us" various messages via Messenger with a 18 year old boy who I have also found is under the care of Social Services as Vulnerable on Wednesday. Basically he was asking various questions along the lines of not wearing a condom, swallowing, sexualised questions and requesting she takes photos and she took a naked photo and sent to him and then invited him over the following morning to have sex and was not bothered if wore a condom! I was so taken aback about this that I was physically sick and had to restrain myself from waking her up to ask what she was playing at. Obviously he did not visit as I saw these messages and DID NOT go out and he was trying to contact her in the morning leaving messages - "has your mum left" I sent an email to our Support Worker and CAMHS Wednesday night who we were due to see that following morning (Thursday). The CAMHS advise was to contact Police for advise. Whilst I was talking to her she went in my bag (I know did not realise I put it down) and deleted the Messenger messages, but what she did not realise was that I had already taken copies of all messages etc. I waited to speak to Post A worker who said needed to take advise from Manager and would see us later. I asked re the boy in question as he did mention he was seeing Social Worker that day so they must have him on the system and I later found out that he was and had a Worker and classed as vulnerable, but I also got from the conversation she had with her Manager when she visited us that there was more, but I was not privilege to know about.
The Post A worker called before visiting to state that it had been referred to MASH and they also advised to contact the Police. She did and they would visit that afternoon whilst SW present. SW arrived about 1:50 met us both for a fortnightly visit and then proceeded to tell AD that I had found messages and that it had been referred to MASH and Police who were going to visit that afternoon. Obviously this resulted in a kick off and storming to bedroom. SW waiting about 5 mins and went up and left me for 1 - 1.5 hours not knowing when the Police would turn up. When SW did come down, at 3:30 and after we had been talking, it was 4 and Police not arrived so I asked her to chase. When she did she was informed that as both were 16 & 18, there were legal and no crime had been committed even though SW had explained when made referral she said, she was vulnerable, at risk of sexual exploitation etc etc. This is what the Desk Sargent said! Obviously, I was fuming so there was several calls between SW and Line Manager and me saying not happy as now we have to speak to AD and say Police not coming out and we all know now that this gives a GREEN LIGHT to say don't know what everybody was worried about, I'm legal its okay!! Then to make matters worse when MASH called to speak to SW, they were not bothered and I got to speak to them who said that as she is 16, they are "downgrading" the referral to Early Intervention Team, but did not know who, when and what would happen. I was fuming with the SW. She said Sorry, I feel like I have made things worse and I said YES - 100X Worse and now you are not available until next Wednesday and I am as a Single Parent left to deal with a child who basically hates me for protecting her. Consequently I have slept very little and most of the day have been in bed with a migraine, but I have managed to put a complaint into SS. Had awful nightmares last night of my AD being R***d and them cheering and clapping - she 16 all is okay!!!! Has anybody else had to deal with this. In addition they are all aware - SW, MASH and Police that she went into care because of Sexual Abuse and I got her at age 8!!!!!