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Please keep us in your thoughts. Our most troubled child who is now early 30s is currently very ill in ICU .


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Oh steps sending a big hug of support and praying for you all. X


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Thank you .it is related to alcohol consumption and has led to him being on dialysis


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Sending prayers and hugs for all.


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I'm so sorry to hear this. Sending lots of hugs and good healing wishes. x


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Love, ((hugs)) and prayers for you all xx


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Prayers and thought are with you all

Ham xx


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sending thoughts and hope he survives


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(((((((steps family)))))))


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Oh Steps, you are a true adoption warrior. Thinking of you, your eldest and all the family.


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He is having an op tonight will update you all tomorrow .

He is being prayer for and sent positive vibes from many people . I work in community cohesion and so he has Christian Muslim and Hindus praying!


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He is having an op tonight will update you all tomorrow .

He is being prayer for and sent positive vibes from many people . I work in community cohesion and so he has Christian Muslim and Hindus praying!


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He is having an op tonight will update you all tomorrow .

He is being prayer for and sent positive vibes from many people . I work in community cohesion and so he has Christian Muslim and Hindus praying!


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So sorry to hear this. Thinking of you and praying he pulls through xxx


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Oh my word. I hope the operation is a success. Have said a prayer for your AS. X


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My prayers and thoughts are with you and your family xx


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So sorry to hear this Steps. My 31 year old AD is an alcoholic and was recently very ill as a result of alcohol withdrawal. Thinking of you.


Lily x


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So very sorry to read your post Steps - love and strength for you all.

Thinking of you all and hoping there is a positive outcome.

Mxx


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Dear steps - sending lots of love and strength - I remember so long ago you putting me up for a memorable night and giving me laughter medicine in the form of a games night at your friends. Hope you are surrounded by love and support (true previously known as truffle, idwal etc). Hoping your ds is getting the best of care. My ds just turned 21 and lurches chaotically along


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Sending prays for him and u at this time in.my thoughts xx


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Really sorry to read your son is so unwell. Sending my love and prayers for you and the whole family


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Praying now


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gentle hugs to you all (((((())))))) prayers and candle lit for your family xx


Mrs Jellies is praying for you all, as is Hippychick.


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Thinking of you and your son steps. x


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Dear friend


Long time no see.


I’m so sorry to hear this.


Sending love and strength to you and Mr. Steps. Hoping that your son pulls through.


Xx


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Loving thoughts and prayers coming your way.


Johanna x


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Praying for you all and hoping the op was successful xx


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Hope your son is progressing and that you get some positive news soon love to you all


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So sorry to hear your news. Hope the op was a success x


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So sorry to hear you are all going through this. Sending so much love & positive get well thoughts xxxx


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I feel overwhelmed and held up by your thoughts and prayers.

He got bumped for the op yesterday so after 16 hours nil by mouth was very frustrated. However he is having it as I write.

It is difficult to know how to support him. The last 2 months have challenged our relationship with him texting phoning etc for money not helped by delays with his universal credit. We did food shops for him weekly and pay his mobile SIM only contract. But he hasn't wanted to see us for the last 8 weeks apart from when we deliver his food !

Because of his learning disability he has good support workers who see him 3x a week. However he needs more support and if he gets through all this will need a more supported housing project.

We hold on to the fact that despite his at times challenging behaviour many of the support workers and

Nurses always comment in his charm and sense of humour,

He is pleased to see us and his God parents who have also been visiting and his younger brother who was placed with him.

So as ever we hold on to the ! Whilst feeling the deep sadness of the situation he has ended up in.

Thanks again for understanding the complex place we are in


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((hugs)), love and prayers


Thanks for the update....planet adoption is never straightforward....


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I've been thinking about and praying for your son during the day as I am sure many people on here and in 'real life' have been doing.


We are 'propping up' a member of our family and they sometimes go silent, don't answer texts or calls or emails and then we get a call when money is needed! So I understand a little. Its so so difficult to watch them harming themselves with their lifestyles, even if we know the underlying causes.


I don't know how capable your son is of recognizing that he is loved, but to have your support where the rubber hits the road, and that of his brother and Godparents will hopefully speak to him.


Larsti x


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Hope that the operation has gone well and that your AS gets all the care and support he needs and deserves. Sending love and a prayer for better times x


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I have prayed for your son and continue to think of him and his family today. I hope the operation is a success. Maybe this will be a wake up call that will help him going forward? My own son remains very vulnerable and was in hospital recently with stab wounds. There is no rest for us is there? Take care of you too.


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Hoping the operation successful and praying for the best possible outcome for your son


Johanna x


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Thinking of you and your family, what a very worrying time for you. Sending prayers and good wishes. x


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Popping in here to add my love and prayers. xx


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Thank you so much we continue to need your prayers . The op relieved pressure but he is still on dialysis and is sedated.

As I explained to the nurse yest. This is a comparatively easy time for the nurses . They can nurse him with out him arguing about wanting to be discharged or without him trying to walk and go off ward. When he leaves the icu he ia likely to get more argumentative. It's hard to know if he realises how ill he is. We are not visiting today his brother and his girlfriend have

gone . We will go tomorrow and have a Rota so next week he will have some one afternoon and evening. Either one of us .one of his brothers or a God parent . His support workers will also go.

There will be arguments to come with Social services as the hostel he is in does will not give him enough support when he is discharged but we are a long way off that .

I am v tired today. But my husband and I are going to see friends fur a meal tonight .

To recharge and relax.

We do appreciate all of you who can read between the lines and recognise what situation we are in .

Thank you


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Steps


Queenie27 asked to pass on her best wishes.


Xx


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Positive vibes and healing thoughts to you all xxx


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((((())))))


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Thinking of you and your son. x


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Thank you still in ICU and still on dialysis. I go back to work tomorrow. But will visit in the afternoon...he wants us there but does not want to talk about how ended up there or how life might change in the future for him .if he gets through this there is a risk of permanent damage to his leg and kidneys..

Feeling tired today !


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Thank you still in ICU and still on dialysis. I go back to work tomorrow. But will visit in the afternoon...he wants us there but does not want to talk about how ended up there or how life might change in the future for him .if he gets through this there is a risk of permanent damage to his leg and kidneys..

Feeling tired today !


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again ((((())) try to get some rest. xx


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Thanks for the update - continuing to pray for you all


((hugs))


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He is now on oxygen as he has a chest infection. One of his friends from Sandy ball adoption UK weekends was working in London yest and managed to visit him and make him smile ! If he is well enough he is having a third op on his leg today .


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Lots of wishes and good luck and hope all goes well for him in his op today. You are doing amazing and try to stay strong (easy to say i suppose). ((((Cyber hugs))))


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Lots of wishes and good luck and hope all goes well for him in his op today. You are doing amazing and try to stay strong (easy to say i suppose). ((((Cyber hugs))))


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Do hope all goes well and the op can go ahead. x


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