Met with PASW, CAMHS and the CSE Worker basically to make sure everyone is singing from the same hymn sheet. The CSE Worker seemed to take offence that we were saying what we wanted as she has her programme to follow, will not keep secrets and knows how teenagers work! - LOL. I said you may work with various teenagers, but you will never truly understand unless you are living it. She did not seem to get the manipulation which the CAMHS Worker was saying that AD is very very good at playing people of each other and what wound me up was she said "I have read the file" I could of hit her, but obviously didn't. I was just saying to really need to understand the concerns I have. We are now having a Multi-Agency meeting next week.
My AD is now saying to everyone that she wants to be put back into care as I am a "Fxxxing Spineless Bitch. CAMHS are saying that she can't seemed to handle a Peer Relationship as well as a home life and is pushing me away. Obviously I am not going to allow her to go back into care. She is so adamant in putting herself at risk to push me away - (her words) that i have said as an emergency that she needs the safe relationship work. - She is not speaking to me at the moment so I really need this CSE Worker to do her job!
It is killing me.
Does anyone know what happens at this meeting and what happens next or if their child is saying wants to go back into care? Do I need to get Professional advise?
Any advise is much much appreciated. Thank you