How do you deal with lying?
Pickles fibs are getting out of hand. She has been diagnosed with sensory processing difficulties and trauma related ADHD. The thing is she lies....a lot and a lot more than other children. She is rude and aggressive, defiant and violent. She has no respect for Mr WLC and whenever he asks her to do something it is met with shouting and sticking out her tongue along with blanket refusal and rudeness.
Like now, she was asked by hubby to sit down on her bottom after she told fibs and was rude. She has refused and is now arguing the toss with him and refusing to follow his instruction.
She lies at home and at school and it is something I find hard to deal with. It is also affecting her relationships with her peers at school.
When I saw a paediatrician she mentioned ODD to me. Could it be this?
We are also struggling to TP her especially with natural consequences. The other day she refused to get dressed and I said that if she didn't we would be late for school. She shrugged her shoulders and carried on. The natural consequence was that we were late for school but she didn't seem to care.
Likewise, she was yankimg some sort of toy and I said she needed to be more careful or it would break. It did break and that was the consequence but she had to retaliate and then snap one of her sisters toys so that they were even.
The fibs bug me. I don't like being lied to.